Once my sociology professor from high school said the human being was necessarily a gregarious being(has to walk in groups). I was thinking about it and came to the conclusion that it was just a nonsense that came from that teacher, which was nothing new, because he was not really that good. But a few days ago I watched the movie Up in the Air, which is not the greatest movie, but it makes you reflect on life stages, and that reminded me about my professor.
I realized that a time comes in life that is almost inevitable to start your own family. There is a certain age which becomes strange to follow your path without having someone by your side, someone building a parallel life with you. A few years ago, I used to think it would be easy to get out from under my parents’ wings and then have a life alone, cool, no thoughts about marriage, children or anything like it. But now I realize that there is time for everything, that our life is like a puzzle where each piece has to be seated at the right time and right way. Maybe we are really gregarious by nature. Not necessarily gregarious, because there are many people who live without following this rule; but most of us humans, we feel good having someone on our side.
All this also makes me think about something else: how much we change. About three years ago I was a completely different person. When we are living the change we do not realize differences, but if we stop and look to the past we can see how different we are now. I also realized how much people we know have a crucial role in these changes. That is what happened in my life. In recent years I have met wonderful people. Some were amazing teachers and others just simple classmates, but they made me change my way of thinking about almost everything, and even change my character.
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